Turkish women’s perception of low sexual desire, its causes and consequences: an online qualitative survey
Sinan Tetik
A * and Özden Yalçınkaya Alkar B
A
B
Abstract
The nature of sexual desire is complex, and little phenomenological consensus exists about its meaning. Low sexual desire (LSD) is a commonly reported sexual difficulty among women, but it is less frequently associated with sexual distress. The aim of this qualitative study is to explore women’s understanding of sexual desire, and their perceptions of factors that may contribute to LSD, its effects and their methods of seeking help.
The research employed a questionnaire with 12 open-ended questions, developed by the researchers based on sexual script theory. Data were collected from 165 heterosexual Turkish women who reported LSD, recruited through social media platforms between August and October 2021. The data were analysed using a contextual form of thematic analysis to identify and explore patterns.
The ages of the participants ranged from 20 to 63 years. The majority of participants held a Bachelor’s degree (81.2%) and in a relationship (78.8%). Three main themes emerged from the study: (1) gendered messages concerning sex, (2) multi-level sexual desire, and (3) minimisation. The research revealed that women’s sexual desire is often ignored and repressed, and has negative consequences if not expressed in socially acceptable contexts. The causes of LSD in women go beyond personal factors, and include relational and social influences. Women experiencing LSD report distressing effects on their relationships and general wellbeing, yet they tend not to seek help.
Our findings contribute to a deeper understanding of the factors impacting women’s sexual desire and the barriers to seeking help.
Keywords: female sexual dysfunction, female sexual interest/arousal disorder, gender roles, hypoactive sexual desire disorder, qualitative research, sexual desire, sexual distress, sexual script theory.
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